Mike & Donna

Mike & Donna

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Blog #19 The Circle of Life


Blog # 19  The Circle of Life

One of the first sights that captured me when we arrived in Bakersfield was the miles and miles of Almond groves.  I was fascinated.  Although almonds are a staple for us, I’d never thought about the process to get those treats into the bags for sale. The young tree takes about five years to start producing nuts. Beehives were staged in the groves so the bees could pollinate the trees (2 hives per acre).  In February the almonds blossoms were stunning. Our friend, Patti, took a photo shoot of us in the beautiful groves that looked like a snow forest. As this year progressed we would stop to check the pods (with a tiny gel substance inside), then a solid small green ball formed with a green kernel covered with a hull. Finally, we noticed the hull begin to split and expose the almond shell.  The hulls became like leather, and some fell from the tree.  Then we started hearing about the shaking of the trees to get the almonds down to harvest.  Oh how we wanted to see that.  Our Bishop works at the South Valley Farms (includes ten miles of almond trees) and invited us to take a tour.  After they shake the almonds from the trees and leave them on  the ground for a week, they sweep up the almonds.  The hulls and shells come off, the fruit is  sorted according to size.  All parts of the almond are used, and we left the farm with a bag full of delicious nuts.

I’ve thought a lot about the process of life as I observe growth all around us.    Growing from a seedling, to a tree, then blossoming and developing a fruit that can sustain life…it is amazing.  I’ve often pondered what a miracle our lives are, but lately I’m even more aware that every part of our lives is miraculous.  Wow!

This week Mike and I were in Lancaster and Palmdale opening two new apartments.  We put in a rather long day then headed the two hours to Bakersfield.  But, we started thinking about the wind damage to the home of the Elders in North Edwards, so we changed our course and went to look at their place.  This took us about an extra hour. A storm was threatening and we heard of flash flood warnings.  Once again on our way home, we stopped at Mojave to get gas, but the first exit was closed.  When we finally entered the town, the traffic was bumper to bumper.  Traffic from interstate-5, because of flash floods, had been re-routed through Mojave. We were about an hour away from Tehachapi (Highway 58), the route we were taking to Bakersfield, when mudslides closed that road.  193 vehicles were stopped by mud sliding down the mountain.  Luckily the people got out, but their cars are still buried.  What a tender mercy for us – had we not stopped to see the Elders, we most likely would have been in the slide.  We decided to spend the night and see if the storm would pass.  All hotels and restaurants were full, and traffic was stopped.  We called for a hotel room in Lancaster, turned the car back and spent two days stranded, but healthy, in Lancaster.

Last week Ryan and Hali got married, and I was able to go home for a week to celebrate.  Seeing my son married and starting his own family reminded me again of the circle of life.  What a joy it was to spend time with the children and grandchildren.  We met Hali’s cute family, Susie gave a wonderful wedding shower, and the week just flew by.  I was so glad to have Mike join us on Thursday.  The wedding was beautiful – a perfect day.  Then, Saturday was an open house in Nephi.  Sunday we had a 6-hour layover in Phoenix, and Brad’s family picked us up to spend some time together.  I felt like I had been given a joyful shot of adrenaline and was ready to go back to work.

My foster daughter in Cambodia, Davin, also got engaged this month and will marry in December.  I have been able to visit her four times over the years and we have become quite close.  We are both sad that I cannot attend her wedding.  Although we senior missionaries have much more freedom that the young missionaries, leaving the country just doesn’t fit into the job description of a senior missionary.  The mission president has been generous to let me attend baptisms, a birth, and Ryan’s wedding, but leaving the country would take too much time.  It is difficult for Davin to understand why I cannot come “stand” at her wedding; and, I pray that she will sometime understand my commitment to serving on this mission.

Another piece of my circle of life is my dad.  He will be 94 in December.  He is a great man who has lived a remarkable life; and, he is finding that this stage of life is not his most joyful time.  But, he does have the opportunity, and is looking forward to going on the WW-II Honor Flight at the end of this month.  He served as a marine, and truly loves our country.

Life is good and we feel blessed to be serving in Bakersfield.  We have learned much and met so many wonderful people.  We see the Lord’s hand wherever we turn, and for this we will be forever grateful.  We love you and appreciate your support.
                                           Dad almost 94
                                           Wedding fun
                                                        A time to love
                                                             Davin and Veasna getting married in December
                                                              Lunch with Beckett
                                                                                The Family
                                                  The couple is married
                                                                      Mr. & Mrs Ryan Newbold
                                                       Tehachapi mudslide - one vehicle
                                                    Flood on interstate-5
                                                      A V-rake for the almonds
                                                         Just before shaking the tree
                                                                        Facinating!