Mike & Donna

Mike & Donna

Monday, March 16, 2015

 March 16, 2015

Blog #10 - True Beauty

Today we welcomed five new missionaries, and tomorrow we will send home thirteen.  It is amazing how attached we get to them as we watch them work so hard to teach the gospel.  They are such beautiful young men and women.  Friday we were able to take the outgoing missionaries to the LA Temple.  We had five sisters in our Honda, and we had laughter and tears most of the way.  The sister shared tender moments and funny stories and pages from their journals.  They are excited about retuning home, but hesitant to leave this life they've known and loved these past eighteen months.

As spring is blossoming around us I've been thinking about the wonders of this great world our Lord has created.  At the suggestion of some of our housing inspectors, we stopped to see the poppy fields on the way to Lancaster last week.  What an awesome sight!  We live in the desert, yet there is beauty springing up in the most unexpected places. 

Even more beautiful than the surrounding flowers and trees, are the beautiful people we are meeting and the memories of those loved ones we left at home.  Sunday a dear lady in our ward had crocheted me a cell phone holder to wear around my neck so I will have the phone close to me at all times (I probably field at least 30 or 40 phone calls per day.)  Another sister, last month, made a scrapbook to help me save the missionary memories we are creating here.  Friends and family from home let us know they haven't forgotten us.

For me, one of the most beautiful of all is feeling the Holy Spirit touch my heart when new friends testify and share their own conversion stories. So many members here are converts, and I love to hear about each journey.  The other night the Johnsons, one of our inspector couples (stake service missionaries) shared their wonderful story:

Gil and Helen had been married 15 years and Helen had prayed daily that something would happen to help their family attend church together.  Helen had been active her whole life in her church, but Gil, though he believed in God, did not feel a need for a church. Their children went to a church school.

One day two LDS sister missionaries came to the door. Their message immediately touched Helen's heart and she invited them back. She asked Gil if he would join her; he said "No way! I've heard that the Mormons are weird!” When they came back she questioned herself, "What am I doing, I have a church?" and told them she could talk with them. They did ask is they could leave a Joseph smith pamphlet and Book of Mormon. Because she felt something, she took the books, but promptly put them on the shelf.

About that same time, Gil, who was a fireman, had to listen, at work, constantly as two of his coworkers discussed and argued about their two religions . The only thing they agreed on was that another fireman from another shift, who was a Mormon, belonged to “the crazy religion.”  As Gil heard all this religious talk he decided it may be time for him to find a church.  He started reading the bible every day. He went to chat with the priest who sent him to find a book he could read on their theology. He read it, but it didn't resonate in his heart. All this took almost a year, and Helen also found herself questioning her religion and looking for answers. Her priest was frustrated with her questions.

Helen thought about that feeling she had when she met with the sisters ao many months before, then picked up the pamphlet to see what it said. She was impressed.  Later, her spiritually struggling husband agreed to read the pamphlet, and he felt touched by the message. So, he picked up the Book of Mormon, opened it somewhere in the middle, and began reading. He had a powerful confirmation that he was reading pure scripture. He needed to talk with someone but he didn't know where to turn. As Gil and Helen read and talked they were determine they must find out more.

As they were preparing for a camping vacation, and Gil was folding a tent in the living room, he was pleading with Heavenly Father to help him know truth and find answers. Miraculously, at that same time two (different) sister missionaries had prayed to be led to someone who was seeking God. They parked their car and headed down a street.  After knocking on a couple doors they both felt they were on the wrong street. They went back to the car, said a prayer, and headed up the next street. Though they faced rejection at each door they felt they must continue. When they knocked on the Johnson door Gil had just finished his prayerful plea. He opened the door and was so excited to see them that his eyes bulged--and the sister missionaries thought he was going to throw them out. But he invited them in.  After a short discussion, the Johnsons left on their vacation promising to learn more when they returned.  That began a passionate and thorough study of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Both Gil and Helen received their own personal testimonies, not at the same time, then joined The Savior's church. 

They shared more as they talked about tithing, the effect on his job, and their children's schooling.  Their life has had challenges, as have we all, but they have never wavered in their complete faith in and testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ.  They have spent years serving in many church calling and have done so much to help the people of Bakersfield.

I love their story, and, I have also been struck by two reminders that are directly applicable to missionary work here.  First of all, it is a testimony of the Book of Mormon, received through the Holy Spirit, that converts one to truth; and second, the first set of missionaries planted the seed by inspiration to leave the books (yet, probably had know knowledge of their influence) and the second set of missionaries humbly followed the Lord's guidance to the door at the moment the Johnsons were ready to receive the message.  What a beautiful story.

We are grateful to be here to help further the work in any way we can.  Our testimonies are strengthened as we see small daily miracles that bring people to Christ.  We also appreciate the love and support of you, our dear family and friends.

I also have a request:  My dear friend, Jack Threet, has just had a pancreas and kidney transplant as he has battled with diabetes.  He is a wonderful young man.  Not only is he a friend with my children, and he was one of my darling PRIDE students during his high school years, but he is the son of one of my dearest friends, Gayle. I believe there is strength in group prayer.  I am asking if you will pray for his recovery as he goes through this difficult time and pray for his family to have the strength to do what they need to do.  Thank you. 

Much love,
Mike and Donna





                                              Outgoing missionaries at the LA Temple
                                                      Oh what a beautiful world!

Sunday, March 1, 2015


March 1, 2015

Blog #9 -  What is it we do?

One of the sister missionaries mentioned to me that the days are long and the weeks are short.  That pretty much describes how I feel about the days and weeks.  In fact, I missed writing last week because I didn’t realize so much time had passed.  As senior missionaries, we have a lot of freedom to plan our days and weeks – yet we still have many tasks required of us.  Frequently, folks we meet ask us what is it we do?

In many ways it feels like we left retirement and went back to work at a regular job. But, this job doesn’t have the emotional pressure our other jobs had. The other day Mike and I were organizing our storage garage, which is attached to the home of the Assistants to the President.  As I was washing out waste baskets in the kitchen, the assistants had come home for lunch.  I commented that I cleaned houses to earn money in college ($1.25 an hour), and now I’m cleaning again . . . my life has come full circle.  However, I find much more joy in this service.

As you may have heard, the church is opening eleven new missions.  What that means for the existing missions is that we will go down in numbers from 250 missionaries to about 200.  We are not moving missionaries, but rather are modifying the numbers through attrition.  We may have 18 missionaries returning home and only receive 8 new ones.   In the months we have been here we have opened a few apartments.  This involves, after signing the lease and inspecting the property, purchasing all of the items the missionaries will need to live in the home (beds, book case, dresser, tables and chairs, lamps, dishes, cooking utensils etc.)  We set up the apartment and help them move in. 

Now we are in the midst of closing several apartments.  We help the President and Assistants look at area leases, productivity and accessibility to determine which apartments are best to keep and which ones we can let go.  The closing of apartments is a major task.  We must give a notice to vacate and inform all involved.  Then on moving day we have to make sure we leave it as close as possible to the condition in which we received it.  Since we’ve occupied some apartments for ten years, it is a major task.  We sort, clean, throw away, clean, transport furniture to good will, clean,and move all of our items to storage for future use.

We are blessed to have eleven senior service missionary couples who inspect the apartments every six weeks for cleanliness and damage.  They are wonderful, and we don’t know how we could possibly do this job without them.  We are insisting high cleanliness standards, and holding the missionaries accountable.  Our motto is “Cleanliness is a process, not an event!”  And, this zone conference, we will give the Golden Plunger Award to the cleanest apartment in each zone.  Yes, we do try to have fun as we go.

We also do trainings, etc. to help the missionaries know what “clean” means.  We, along with the inspectors, help to fix problems, work with the managers, and get needed supplies to the missionaries.  As I’ve been typing this I received a call from an inspector in Lancaster (two hours away) who received a call from two missionaries whose fridge went out two days ago.  Mike and I ran to the office files to see if the fridge belongs to us or the apartment.  Apparently, it belongs to us.  So, the inspector is going to the storage in Lancaster, getting another fridge to swap out the broken one, and taking the broken one to storage.  All in a days work.

We love working with these missionaries.  Sometimes they invite us to go teach with them.  We love that. Also, I have the opportunity to write the monthly newsletter and take photos.  This work is a blessing.  The mission had 23 baptisms this month, and those will affect families for generations.

We have a huge project to do in our ward, which is to find the young single adults who are less active.  There are many different reasons people choose to move away from God, but seldom are they happy reasons,  we want to reassure them of God’s love for them.

We also have the blessing and freedom to spend a little time with family.  Jaci and Lori came last weekend for a quick visit.  This weekend Becca and Reese came.  This gospel is about eternal families, and we love to see our families.  We are also getting to know our ward family here, and it is feeling more comfortable.

We love you and miss you, and we feel the Lord’s hand in our lives --
we are grateful for His tender mercies as we work to figure out what He would have us do.
Thanks for your love and support.  You are in our prayers.
                                                       Becca and Reese came for a visit
                                                                  Who needs a gym?
                                                   The couches can be monsters
                                 Our ward Elders requested breakfast for Valentine Dinner
 We had dinner at the "Buck Owens Crystal Palace" with Jaci and Lori.  Line dancing was included
                                Spring is early -- the beautiful blossoms have no leaves

                                                  Scenes of beauty amidst the oil fields
                                                      Sanity through humor . . .
                                                  Most of our Bakersfield inspectors
                                         Moving can be rough -- at the end of the day
                                                         It's only a washer
                                Pizza at the Morris house -- our dear friends and co-workers
                                       Lunch after closing two apartments
                                                             Careful!
                                            Some of the Lancaster/Palmdale inspectors
                            Our dear friend Patti took a photo shoot in the almond groves.